Gentlemen! Are you looking to increase your chances when looking for a date online? Read on and get a woman’s perspective on what you might be doing wrong and how to make an online dating profile that attracts more ladies than you can shake a stick at!
Do not post pictures where you are trying to look sexy… mostly you will look like a tool…just do a simple straight on picture. No Cheesy shirtless shots, none with your daughter, or your kitty. This is about you and putting your best face forward. First Impressions are everything!!! Do make sure it’s visible, not a shot of you from the side talking to someone.
Do actually post a picture, you won’t get any traffic to your site if you can’t be bothered to post a picture.
Do make an actual effort with your profile: when they ask ‘tell us something about yourself’ and you put one sentence, does that make us want to know more? If you can’t be bothered, then don’t bother at all.
Do not Over-talk about how important your kids are… So we can see you have a daughter, there is no need to gush on and on about it, Do make a comment and move on, it may seem callous but we are here to meet you and not your 7 year old. That comes later.
Do check your SPELLING and GRAMMAR….Two words, SPELL CHECK, enough said. You don’t have to be a Rocket Scientist but at least try and look intelligent.
Do not lie about stuff, if you don’t make $100K, don’t put it, if you aren’t actually 5′7 don’t put it. Lying to someone before your first date will not create a good impression and you will come unstuck.
Do not be weird… you should be you, but don’t go off on the spirituality of Dungeons and Dragons, leave some mystery as you’ll just scare the ladies away.
Do not over limit yourself, if you are 45 and make 50K a year and are a bit overweight, don’t put your looking for a 22 year old athletic lady. Really???
Do be diverse, be funny, be creative & tell us a funny story (but NOT too creative).
Last but not least, Do not talk about SEX! We know you think about it like 23 hours in a day, but making overt comments about how important it is to you is not needed, this is a dating site profile, if you’re looking for a nameless encounter, look elsewhere.
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Cool stuff…kinda knew a lot of this already but hey! Guess I’m ahead of the game. Good luck fellas…
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Awesome notice about men and women. I’m frankly dumfounded that it hasn’t been alleged before.
Anyway, you have an interesting take on this subject. I’d love it if you updated this blog on a more regular basis! Also, do you allow your readers to submit to you questions they would like to personally ask you about? Right now I have a question on this subject because I am going through a difficult situation with a woman I have a crush on and I am not sure how to move forward. I’d love to ask for your advice…or maybe someone can suggest a book that I ought to read?
Hi Rey, thanks for your comment! At the moment, Dategeneration does not offer personal advice but keep on visiting – we are planning something that will interest you!